Can children chose who they want to live with in WA?
In a custody situation, the child's preference is only one factor and only if they are sufficiently mature.

Sometimes we are asked if children can decide who they want
to live with when the parents live apart (divorce or other custody situation). There seems to be some folklore out there
about children being able to “decide” when they reach a certain age, such as 12
or 14. Perhaps this is based on
different laws in some of the 49 other states.
In Washington State, if a child
is under the age of 18, the court considers a number of factors in formulating
a parenting plan. One of the factors is “the
wishes of the parents and the wishes of a child who is sufficiently mature to
express reasoned and independent preferences as to his or her residential
schedule.” Thus, the child’s preference
is only one of the factors to be considered and only when the child is “sufficiently
mature.” The other factors to be
considered include the relative strength, nature, and stability of the child's
relationship with each parent, each parent's past and potential for future
performance of parenting functions , etc. If you would like to discuss a parenting plan matter or another legal matter, please contact our office at 360-675-9310.









