Restraining Orders are Serious Business
Domestic Violence Restraining Orders in Washington State

In Washington State, Domestic Violence restraining orders are serious business and worthwhile to contest if you are the respondent in such a proceeding and you do not feel there is just cause for such an order to be issued against you. In addition, if you already have one issued against you, you need to be careful about violating the terms of order even if the petitioner invites contact with them. Their consent to have contact with you is not a viable defense if you are charged with a crime. For instance, in State v. Dejarlais, a 1998 case from the Washington State Supreme Court, the defendant argued that, where a person protected by a protection order consents to the presence of the person restrained by the order, the jury should be instructed that the consent is a defense to the charge of violating that order. The Washington State Supreme court held that such a consent defense is inconsistent with the legislature’s intent to protect victims of domestic violence. Furthermore, the court explained, allowing parties to consent to contact would essentially allow people to modify the order without going to court and having a hearing as required. So, if an order is issued against you and the petitioner invites you over to reconcile or talk things out, you can be charged with a crime and be convicted even if they consented to contact with you.
If you would like to contest or pursue a protection order or discuss another family law, personal injury or legal matter, please contact our office at 360-675-9310.









